I was in a part of the country that I didn’t know. Sitting on a pew with strangers in a church I had heard much about but never visited. As I looked around the packed building I saw his friends, family and fellow parishioners. People acquainted with each other shared hugs and tissues. But not with me. Nobody knew me and I sat feeling lonely among the mourners. I gazed at the religious statues and the paintings on the walls. All of this would have been so familiar to him. Up ahead was the lectern where he had surely stood hundreds of times as a reader. Then the doors opened, and they carried him in. The big man with the

Words are so important in the world of power play, and I love exploring them in my punishment room and my naughty phone chats. I enjoy seeing the effects they have as I describe a scene as well as physically enacting it. I have noticed though that there are some words that will cause a thrill even when their meaning isn’t clear. One example of this is the mention of a woman’s bra size. Tell a man that a strict auntie is a 54AA or a 32FF and you might get an excited response to either.  It makes no difference that the first figure describes a larger woman with a flat chest, while the second would be a slim woman with

So here it is. My first blog post. When thinking about what to write I decided that I wanted to consider the part of my life which finds me as a domme and my relationship to the profession which I have been playing at in one way or another for many years. The word ‘playing’ is the perfect one to use here because that is how I see it. When I am in-role it is something that is at its core very creative. If the world is a stage where we all play a part, then what I do in this work is somehow a stage within a stage. It is here that I get to relax and have fun